When it comes to making a person tick there could definitely be several reasons for this?
Each individual has something that they are looking for in a mate. When you ask people what they are looking for the list can be interesting.
For some it is mental.
How a person thinks, how they use their brain when it comes to problem solving can be a turn on to an onlooker. To see a person in action negotiating a major deal, reading a book to gain knowledge or being creative in a clever way adds to what makes a person appealing.
For some it’s physical. When it comes to physical attributes for some people this is a great starting point.
A persons smile can warn ones heart. Looking into a persons eyes can make a person get lost. Taking it one step further for both men and women a person who takes care of them self physically is a definite turn on. Let’s just keep it real, a man with ripped abs or a woman with a toned body it what really catches an eye.
For a lot of people it’s both mental and physical.
For some an idea mate has a good head on their shoulders and a good body. Both men and women would agree that their idea person would definitely have a little bit of both. Or a lot of both depending on who you ask. Some people feel that how you take care of yourself on the outside and what you put into your body as far as knowledge will tell you something about what’s on the inside.
The idea overall mate can vary. What’s important to one person will also vary to the next. Whether it’s a great smile, nice eyes, a person who looks to exercise their brain as well as their body in the end it is important to find the person that is the best fit for you.
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People are attracted to thinkers
Some people love the idea of a person who uses their brain as a mate. What is the attraction? It could be the fact that knowing things will get handling in a rational and well thought out way is one reason to be in a relationship with them.
Working out can be a turn on
Some people are attracted to a person who takes care of themselves physically. A man or woman who works out and is in good physical shape is definitely a sign that they care about themselves and their bodies.
Brains and a body
A man that takes the time to read a book to enhance his mind, who works out and takes care of his body for some is the idea mate. A woman who does the same is high on a mans list as well.