A big issue today is the value of self and quality people. Dating today is not dating at all it’s now just hooking up for some people. A date used to be when a man asked you out to a venue, not to his house for drinks and take out but unfortunately women and men both have become comfortable with this lack of effort. Hooking up and disposable relationships have become common practice with today’s couples. It a way out for most. A hook up requires no responsibility, and no emotion which is why it’s easily a disposable situation. Who is to blame for that? Women and men share the blame equally for whatever reason.
Some women will be scared to grow old and alone. A lonely woman will offer herself quickly to a man that promises her the world without evidence of his true intentions. Then there are some women who will be terrified to love because of past pain that she is holding on to. Her ideas of men are no longer fantasies but nightmares of heartbreak. There is an abundance amount of lonely women who lack self esteem and self worth. We settle when we should expect more, we bow down when we should stand strong and we allow when we shouldn’t tolerate. A quality man will uplift, not beat down. A quality man will complete your needs without ever making you feel like a burden. A quality man will not dispose of you because he is done, he will hold on tighter because he just can’t get enough.
Some men have been traumatized by watching their parent’s relationships; coming from a dysfunctional home doesn’t motivate him to have a successful relationship of his own. Once upon a time we looked to our men for guidance and stability but somewhere along the line the roles have reversed and the women are holding the weight. In any event; all the possible issues of men and women are causing dating today to be an exhausting, heart wrenching experience. It could be the relationship he has with one or both his parents that make him not the quality man he should be. A broken relationship between parent and child can have great influence on how he treats the woman he encounters on his own.
Self worth is what’s needed to obtain a Quality relationship. That simply means; love yourself and it will be easy for someone else to love you. Respect the art of love and it will bless you with an act of love in return. Hold yourself in the highest regard so that anybody on the outside looking in will want to know you. Love is not easy and they say that anything worth it is worth fighting for but first show off your own beauty by loving yourself.