Do you want to learn how to be sexy for your husband so that he will want you more and tell you how sexy you are? Let me guess, you were sitting on the couch watching TV when one of those skinny models with the long tanned legs and blonde hair came strutting out. Suddenly, you saw your husband’s eyes nearly jump out of his skull as he made a comment like, “Hubba Hubba” or something about the woman being sexy. You then started to wonder how come he never tells you how sexy you are anymore. Does that sound about right? Well worry no more, because after today you will have all the tools you need to make your husband find you sexy.
Stop Worrying About Your Appearance So Much
Women go out and spend a ton of money buying beauty products and sexy outfits in hopes their husbands will find them sexy. Did you know that appearing sexy only has a little bit to do with the way you look? Being sexy for your husband is a combination of the way you act, the things you say, and your appearance amongst other things. You have got to get rid of the notion that the only way to be sexy to your husband is your appearance.
Ask Your Husband If He Thinks You’re Sexy
There are a lot of women who never hear their husbands tell them that they are sexy, so they automatically assume that they must not find them sexy. I once had a client who was trying to find ways to be sexier for her husband, so I asked her if she had asked him if she was sexy. When she told me no, I told her to go home and ask him. The next time I met with her, she told me that her husband finds her very sexy but he never told her because he felt it would be disrespecting her. Your husband might feel the same way, but you’ll never know if you don’t ask.
Train Him To Tell You How Sexy You Are
For as long as men and women have been together, women have been training men to do the things they want them to do. In fact, women have become experts at training men to do just about anything. Let me give you an example. When is the last time you said, “Honey, can you change this light bulb? I’m not quit tall enough to reach it” instead of getting out a step ladder or chair to change it yourself? See what I mean? Getting your husband to tell you that you are sexy is as simple as training him to change a light bulb for you.
The next time you look sexy and feel sexy all you have to do is go strutting past your husband. If he doesn’t say anything or if he doesn’t say what you want him to say, then train him to say it. For example, if he says, “You look pretty today” then you say, “Don’t you mean sexy?” If he says nothing at all when you go walking by, then say, “Don’t I look sexy today?” and smile at him.
You get the point. The thing to keep in mind is, you have to be repetitive if you want to get a reaction from him every time. You also have to keep in mind that looking sexy is only a third of the equation. If you want your husband to find you sexy, then you have to act and talk sexy as well. Make sure to ask your husband if he thinks you are sexy, and if he does, then train him to tell you on a regular basis. After all, if he can sit on the couch and tell the TV, “Wow!” “You’re Hot!” and “You’re so sexy!” then you deserve to be told these things too!